How to convince your parents of your love marriage? – Part 2


Now, how are you going to convince your parents?
First, don’t be adamant and childish.  Don’t say that you can’t imagine a life without her.  It would remind them of your childhood when you didn’t eat for a whole day so that your dad would buy you a new cricket bat and it would further fortify their belief that you are still a kid.  We don’t want to blame you though.  Naturally, the smart employee in you who handles critical situations, convinces a range of people and solves issues takes a backseat when you are with your parents.
Now, why can’t you bring into play those skills?  Yes.  Do it like a pro.  We, wedding planners in Bangalore, would strongly recommend this strategy!
First, listen to your parents patiently.  Tell them that their concerns make sense. 
Whenever you negotiate, if and when you accept an opinion or two from the other side of the table, there are higher possibilities that they would also accept your views.  People reciprocate!  Instead of mourning or screaming that you love her so much, you better politely explain to them if you marry some other woman, the memories would linger long in your mind and may become a big obstacle for a happy married life.  And in turn, it would affect your kids’ happiness and so on.  Tell them that you don’t want to disappoint a woman, a stranger, who believes you blindly and steps into the married life with so many dreams flashing in her mind as you two tie the knots.
Tell them that she will be a perfect life partner for you for good.  Explain to them with real-life examples that your soulmate is matured enough to understand your mood swings and she remains quiet when you fly off the handle.
Tell your parents that she does not like it when you hang out with your friends over a beer.  Your parents would love to hear this.  We, experienced wedding planners in Calicut and Cochin, knows this for sure.
Tell your parents that while she is determined enough to make a point when she is right, she does it like a friend.  She always discusses.  She never argues.  Even when you tend to embroil in a spat, she knows how to tone it down into an optimistic discussion.
Above all, tell your parents that you two have saved a good amount of money (we hope you must have!) for the future and she had been pestering you till one day morning you showed up in front of the bank.  Tell them that she wants to send kids to U.S. for higher studies once they finish the schooling.  We, wedding planners in Bangalore, assures you that this will impress your parents.
To put it in one word, instead of lamenting that she loves you so much, she sends you 50 messages every day, she calls you 10 times every two hours…you better tell your parents that she knows the art of living.  We hope you got it.  And, what is very important and effective is, you should do it like a pro!

All the best!

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