How to convince your parents of your love marriage? – Part 1
You are in love. You met her before a few years. You know from the very first moment that she is your soulmate. One beautiful evening, a Friday, you proposed to her and she took a month to say yes. Women always play hard! But, after a while, she confessed that she too had butterflies in her stomach when she was talking to you for the first time. For the last 3 years, you two have gone through so much. You broke up before a year. But the sabbatical lasted just for a week and again you guys have got into full swing! Having gone through ups and downs, loved each other too much and hated each other for a day or two on this journey, you two have become seasoned players. You two know how to play the game and make it a success for both of you. We, wedding planners in Bangalore, understand that, like married couples, lovers too go through every kind of situation.
Now, you both want to honor the glorious history you have scripted for the past few years and take it further. You are going to get married and grow old together. Soon you two will be scolding your sons and daughters for not eating at right time, and making their hands and legs dirty every evening by rolling in the mud in front of your house. After two decades, you two are going to take your grandkids for a walk in the parks. You are going to buy them their favourite chocolates in bulk and teach them how to store it at home secretly and eat it discreetly without leaving a clue to their parents. And one day you two are going to happily die laying your heads on each other’s lap. Last week, you both sat in a café, discussed in detail, debated and chosen a name for your baby!
My goodness, you have burnt the bridges and no going back!
We, experienced wedding planners in Calicut and Cochin, can understand that you have dreamt of a colourful future with her.
You are all set to walk down the aisle with your soulmate. Just your parents want to discuss this with you. Of course, they know her very well. You have taken her to your home a few times.
When she touched your mother’s feet and sought her blessings, your mother was really moved. Your father, seeing this, winked at you.
BUT…beyond all these sweet moments, your parents have some concerns.
All parents do. For them, it doesn’t matter where she was born and brought up or what language she speaks. It does not matter whether she is going to quit her job after marriage or she would stay in the workforce. She can wear whatever she likes. No issues.
One thing and only one thing they worry about is whether your kids are going to make it. It’s a lifelong commitment and they are worried that whether you guys are really serious about it. These days, they get to hear all kinds of stories. Couples just jump into married life and in a few months, they start lamenting that they have made a wrong choice. Your parents are so eager to welcome their daughter-in-law into your family. It’s just that they have some reservations. Their concerns should be addressed with care. One of the most successful wedding planners in Bangalore, who has witnessed hundreds of weddings, we always believe that one needs parents’ blessings before they tie knots.
Now, how are you going to convince your parents?
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